Frankly My Dear… It's Not About You.
It’s about…
… the client.
… audience.
… communication goals.
… contributing to the industry.
… learning.
… effectiveness.
… growth.
… the buyer.
… the bottom line.
… the sales.
… the product.
… the rest of the world.
In other words, everything but you.
All too often I witness students and veterans alike defending ideas that they are attached to in an irrational way. Irrational meaning that instead of choosing design elements based upon factual rationale to meet communication goals, they have instead chosen the elements based upon how it makes them feel or personal goals. In most cases the elements that are chosen are done so to give the designer a certain pleasure to see a vision or idea executed. We’re all guilty of it to some degree.
In an article titled, The Top 10 Things They Never Taught Me in Design School, Michael McDonough writes, “No matter how good your design is… Somebody has to buy it. Respect those people. You need them. Big time.” It’s important for designers to understand, especially entry-level designers, that we rely on others to pay our bills. By not being helpful to them and instead ourselves, our clients are liable to go elsewhere to have their company’s communication needs met.
Usually the designer describes what they have done by beginning with the words, “I like…” or “I feel…” or “I wanted…”. Ah, yes, you see there? Notice there is an absence of goals, communication, audience, client… it’s me, me, me. Really, if you’re being rational, you should be sticking to the facts, and the facts are that what YOU like, feel and want does not matter to your client. They want to know how you are going to meet THEIR needs, not yours.
With that in mind, take the words “I” and “me” completely out of your vocabulary when presenting a solution to a client. You might be wondering what to say to a client then. I know, it’s hard. You try to remove those words from your presentation vocabulary and they just naturally slip out. My theory is that everyone has been talking so much about themselves for so long on on-line social environments like myspace they just can’t seem to get the words I and me out of their vocabulary when presenting solutions.
Considering the challenge, I have a suggestion: Practice, practice, practice. The more you practice talking about your work the correct way, the easier and more natural it becomes to discuss it in a way that is not about you. Talk about the someone somewhere that you are doing something for. Everything else is filling in the blanks and avoiding the use of “I” and “me”.
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